3 Reasons Why Independent Women are a Turn-Off

Destiny’s child said it best “All the women who are independent, throw your hands up at me!” I guess they were too busy gassing up all us females to follow this song up with a “how to be independent and in a healthy relationship” sequel. Well we’re going to get down to the bottom of why independent women who should be considered ‘trophy wives’ are a bit of a turn off for some. Here’s some reasons why most independent women are single af : Continue reading “3 Reasons Why Independent Women are a Turn-Off”

If a Man Pays for a Date…You Owe Him Sex?

In today’s dating culture, it is widely debated whether or not a man is expected to pay for the first date. Men are feeling used, after feelings of getting nothing in return for paying for the first date. To get a woman’s attention, is a man really obligated to cough up money on the first initial date in order to be seen as a potential “option” for the woman? If a man refuses to pay for the first date or simply would like to split the bill  , is he suddenly banished to the friend zone or listed as an unsaved number? The idea is that if a man takes the time to pay for your meal, [especially if he took you to an expensive restaurant] then  sex is expected at the end of the night. Let’s all keep it real, if a man spends $200 on a date, he’s expecting to get some ass at the end of the evening; not a simple kiss on the cheek and a “good night” text. The question is…do women owe this to men?  Continue reading “If a Man Pays for a Date…You Owe Him Sex?”

Where is Frank Ocean’s Album, “Boys Don’t Cry”?

Frank Ocean has continued to break the hearts of many. We’ve journeyed down a roller coaster of uncertainty waiting for his long awaited album. Frank Ocean’s last album, Channel Orange, debuted back in 2012 and there has been a variety or rumors, tall tales and conspiracy theories as to when he will release his next project. If he will release his next project?

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5 Reasons Why Your Ex Changes After a Breakup

Ever breakup with someone and all of sudden they’re doing EVERYTHING they said they would never do. You may have been in a relationship with someone who said they  didn’t drink or party but, you catch them all over social media at the hottest clubs tweeting about how shit faced they are the next morning. Maybe you were with a girl who dressed super conservative and after a breakup, all her social media accounts resemble that of a budding Instagram model in the making; fit tea included. You might sit there and ponder why they couldn’t just be themselves during the entire relationship or why they didn’t feel comfortable enough to experience new things with you?  Here are 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Changes After a Breakup:

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Expensive Products to Replace with Coconut Oil in Your Vanity

Thank the make-up gods for beauty stores such as Sephora and Ulta. If it wasn’t for them, so much of the world would look different. This is usually how I’m feeling until I take my products to the cashier and she serves me one of those pity smiles right before she tells me the total. Well no more heart wrenching “please let my card go through” thoughts because I’ve found the mother of financial solutions. Coconut oil. Here’s five products to replace in your vanity with coconut oil.

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This is Why Your Sex Life Sucks

There’s something about sex that gets almost everyone’s panties in a bunch and now I know why, because almost everyone is having horrible sex. Yes you read that correctly and if you’ve clicked on this post you’re probably one of those silent sufferers. Well suffer no more because we’re about to turn your sex life all the way around.

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5 Ways Social Media Will Ruin Your Sex Life

So you just had some amazing sex with your partner. The kind that makes you want to go for a round 3 ….or a round 5. For some of you, the sex is so good that you feel the urge to post about it on social media. You feel the need to brag about how horny you are on social media when your partner is out of town or just simply at work.  I always wondered why people felt the need to put their sex life all over social media. Are people trying to make others jealous? Do they think that we are all at home twiddling our thumbs, and not having sex too?  I’m all for the freedom of sexual expression but, spilling all the details about your sex life on social media could cause some problems. Here are 5 Reasons Why Social Media Can Ruin Your Sex Life

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Are You a Loyal Woman or Just a Dumb Ass?

A lot of people loosely throw the word “loyalty” around as if  it’s a quality that everyone possesses. In regards to a relationship, loyalty towards your partner is definitely one of the major keys that can either make or break it.  Consistently showing your support and allegiance to your partner can help build a relationship with longevity and trust. Despite this, many women are often loyal to the wrong men. They either get caught up in their emotions and lead with their heart or end up leading with pleasureful desires if they become “dickmitized”.  Both are equally unsatisfying.  So the question is, at what point does being a loyal woman become a dumb ass decision?

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7 Rules to Live by in a Rebound Relationship

I’m not at all against rebound relationships and I do believe that many people use them to get over the pain from their ex. Some people gain 100 lbs after an intense breakup, while some jump head first into a rebound situation in order to fulfill their sexual and emotional needs. When I look at Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston or think of when Kylie Jenner and PartyNextDoor had a brief hook up; I can’t even fix my face to have a side eye. So many people engage in rebound sex and relationships after they’ve had their heart broken; fame does not make them exempt. (Although, it’s still very uncertain as to whether Calvin Harris actually broke Taylor’s heart). The reality of it all, is that breakups can leave you feeling empty and alone. Sometimes people want that shoulder to cry on or just simply the intimacy that they no longer have with their ex. This is when people start to explore their options and turn to all those unsaved numbers in their phone looking for a “rebound”.     Here are 7 Keys to Take into a Rebound Relationship:

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Friendzoned? 6 Reasons Why it’s Your Fault

Your whole life, you’ve been labeled as the “cute nice guy”, but you finally meet a woman that peaks your interest. She’s beautiful, you both like the same movies and she was rooting for the same team in the NBA finals. In your mind, you two start “dating” and you see her potential, possibly even a future. You buy her drinks, gifts, expensive dinners, chauffeur her around town and are always there when she’s having a shitty day. Your mission to completely WOO her and sweep her off her feet is in full affect.  Months pass by where you have proudly shown your interest in her. You finally get the balls and decide to ask to take things to the next level; an exclusive relationship. She proceeds to reject you with the infamous line, ” You know we’re just friends, right”? At this very moment you’re dying inside, at the audacity she has to label you “just a friend”, when you have invested so much time and money on her ungrateful a**.  You have officially been sentenced to the friendzone  for life without possibility of parole. As you’re gasping for air trying to escape, you realize that she had tossed you into this category months ago. Here are 6 Reason Why it’s Your Fault You’re in the Friendzone: 

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