Whenever I meet a cute guy I go through a bit of a process. Is he good looking? Can he keep a conversation going? Did I get bored? Did he ask me for my number or my Instagram account (major key)? And this process is completed within the first 5 minutes of meeting someone. I know, I’m not very reasonable with the time clock but who has time to really get to know people anymore (why I’m single)? I may not have figured out how to tell if he’s husband material in the first 5 minutes or even 5 years of knowing someone but I have mastered the skill set of fuck boy detection. Here’s a few signs that you’re dealing with a fuck boy : Continue reading “6 Signs He’s a F*ckboy”
Ok so someone should seriously alert whoever’s in charge of issuing common sense that society, as we know it, is on the brink of definite failure. Why the dramatics you ask? Well yesterday while I was casually conducting my weekly Instagram sweep, I came across an unforgivable post. It was a picture of Stevie J and Joseline and the caption read “Couple Goals”. To make matters worse, it had likes, like 60 of them. This lead me to wonder exactly how Instagram would allow such fuckery and when we as people began calling wrong, right and toxic, healthy. Lets look at why its always better to be in a partnership vs a relationship. Continue reading “Are You in a Relationship or a Partnership?”
This is the perfect spot to insert the rolling eyes emoji because that’s exactly how I feel about this confession. As you all may know, we have a segment called Snap Confessionals where people submit questions to us and we give them our honest opinion, while they remain anonymous. This question came in hot off the press yesterday morning and I’m still feeling some type of way so how do I vent my frustrations? Blog about it to you all of course.
There’s only one of a few ways for this scenario to end so let’s discuss the train wreck that crashed into our dm’s yesterday. Continue reading “He’s in a relationship, but I still want to sleep with him?”
Its always somewhat tricky dealing with other people but especially when you throw building a life together in the mix. Once you have “the talk” and things are officially exclusive; you’re not just missing out on nights with friends, you’re not allowed to be selfish anymore. There’s someone else in the picture to consider now and if you have problems adjusting here’s a few tips to help better any relationship.
I’m not at all against rebound relationships and I do believe that many people use them to get over the pain from their ex. Some people gain 100 lbs after an intense breakup, while some jump head first into a rebound situation in order to fulfill their sexual and emotional needs. When I look at Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston or think of when Kylie Jenner and PartyNextDoor had a brief hook up; I can’t even fix my face to have a side eye. So many people engage in rebound sex and relationships after they’ve had their heart broken; fame does not make them exempt. (Although, it’s still very uncertain as to whether Calvin Harris actually broke Taylor’s heart). The reality of it all, is that breakups can leave you feeling empty and alone. Sometimes people want that shoulder to cry on or just simply the intimacy that they no longer have with their ex. This is when people start to explore their options and turn to all those unsaved numbers in their phone looking for a “rebound”. Here are 7 Keys to Take into a Rebound Relationship:
Rapper ,Iggy Azalea, opened up about the reason for recently ending her relationship with NBA player Nick Young. This morning Iggy tweeted, ” I broke up with Nick because I found out he brought other women into our home while I was away and caught them on security footage”. This information is not at all surprising, however, I did imagine that Nick would have a little bit more respect for his woman after being caught the first time. It’s not like Nick couldn’t afford to cheat in the comfort of a chic hotel room, right? He obviously assumed it was more”comfortable” to cheat in his home, which says a lot about their relationship all together.To make matters worse, Nick’s ex and mother of his child is four months pregnant and he has confessed to sleeping with her after a drunken night. Let us not forget that this past March, Nick was caught on camera during a “secret” man to man conversation with his team mate DeAngelo Russell where he revealed that he has cheated before on his then fiance, Iggy.
So often on social media, I see men and women debate what it means to be “wifey material”. Who wrote the set of rules that determines whether or not a woman fits the mold of what a wife should be. It is 2016 right? Women are taught that if they don’t dress or act a certain way, then they will not get a decent husband. Society places unnecessary pressure for us to find a husband and get married but, not without looking and acting a certain way.
It is no secret that NBA player Steph Curry’s wife, Ayesha Curry, is put on a pedestal for men and is considered the ideal “goal”when it comes to marriage. From a public standpoint, Ayesha fits the mold of a conservative wife; but where is the issue with a married woman like Kim Kardashian also coexisting. Who says that getting you an “Ayesha Curry” is going to solve all of your problems when it comes to a relationship; she’s not an antidote.
The standards of a woman being “wifey material” are overrated and here’s why:
Been seeing this guy for a couple of months and things are going great! He has a great personality, nothing like my ex, and loves Grey’s Anatomy almost as much as I do. I think I could really see a future with him, only problem is, he hasn’t asked me to be his girlfriend yet. Maybe i’m just being paranoid but why won’t he commit?
Most of us have been through a significant break up within our lives and in today’s society , breakups are seen as a race. We race to see who will move on first and there’s always a competition on social media to see who will be the “pettiest”. I personally love the couples that post faithfully about their relationship every week. They never miss a WCW or a MCM post. They are committed to posting their fancy dinner dates and basic relationship memes that remind us that we are missing out on their picture perfect union and love. Then all of a sudden, the posts stop! That’s when I know that things have hit the fan, and the posts about how they’re finding themselves and how they will patiently wait for the “right one” begin. This is the turning point, where I know the plot will thicken and social media pettiness will be at an all time high. So I brace myself….Celebrities aren’t the only people that enjoy putting their business on social media for the world to see.
Some of you may not know this but, we have a segment on our Snap Chat that we like to call #SnapchatConfessionals. Throughout the week, we turn our Snap Chat into a free and open place for everyone to confess to us their most personal secrets, ask questions or vent. We then of course give our real take on their situation and trust us when we say; WE DO NOT HOLD BACK! Questions are always answered anonymously; we are in no shape or form qualified to air out anyone’s filthy ass laundry. At this point, you’re probably wondering why anyone would tell us their dirty secrets or listen to our opinion, right?