What is Love?: Angelina Files for Divorce from Brad Pitt

Today, TMZ reported that Angelina Jolie filed for divorce from her long time lover and husband Brad Pitt.  TMZ further stated that Angelina will not be seeking for Brad to have joint or physical custody of the six children they share. According to TMZ, it was reported that Angelina wants to end the relationship due to Brad’s substance use and  his interactions with their children. Though this may be true, there had to have been a bigger ongoing issue tearing the couple apart for Angelina to give up on a  12 year relationship.

Honestly, this entire situation instantly reminded me of how karma is a bitch and that this was bound to happen.Angelina and Brad’s romance was cursed from the very beginning. If you remember back in 2004 when Angelina and Brad filmed “Mr. and Mrs. Smith, there was a huge scandal where they both were accused of having an affair. During this time, Brad was still married to Jennifer Aniston and they were considered  one of Hollywood’s “it”couples.  In the same year, Brad divorced Jennifer and pursued a relationship with Angelina with claims that they fell in love on the set of Mr. and Mrs. Smith while Brad was still married. My grandmother always said, ” you will lose a man the same way that you got him”….

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Women Afraid to Reject Men? – Tiarah Poyau’s Murder Brings Awareness to Male Fragility

Like many women like myself, we are approached by men for our telephone numbers, dinner dates and even sex. Some men are able to walk away unbothered, while others become aggressive and belligerent. I’ve been called a bitch and followed around the mall numerous times simply because a man with too much ego couldn’t accept the fact that I didn’t want to give him my telephone number or go out with him.

Though a lot of men don’t care most of the time, I’ve been guilty of saying I’m a lesbian to show that I’m completely not interested. I have sported a ring on my wedding finger to appear MORE off limits since a simple “no” is never enough. I’ve said that I’m in a relationship even though I’m 100% single; and I always feel the need to watch my back when I tell a guy I’m not interested in social situations. Tiarah Poyau’s murder honestly could have been me or anyone of my girlfriends and her story reminds us that male fragility is alive and well….

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Blinded by Good Sex-6 Signs You’re Dickmitized

It’s no secret that good dick can be hard to come by. Many women spend months analyzing men’s feet, hands and even a simple dick picture to try and foreshadow whether or not the sex will actually be worth it. Let me first start off by saying that being dickmitized is nothing to be ashamed of and it’s a condition that happens quite often. Have you ever looked back on a relationship or a potential partner and asked yourself what exactly are they giving me besides good D? Do they have anything else to offer besides good D?  Can they even form a simple sentence when they are in a conversation? These are just a couple of questions that should cross your mind.

Being dickmitized will give you a false sense of “love” and longing to make things work  with someone even though it may be a dead situation. Though amazing sex is pleasurable and can take your mind away from daily stresses; it is important to not fall into the category of being dickmitized. We all know that being dickmitized never ends in rainbows and sunshine; it usually ruins your life on various levels.  Here are 6 Signs that you are Dickmitized 

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If a Man Pays for a Date…You Owe Him Sex?

In today’s dating culture, it is widely debated whether or not a man is expected to pay for the first date. Men are feeling used, after feelings of getting nothing in return for paying for the first date. To get a woman’s attention, is a man really obligated to cough up money on the first initial date in order to be seen as a potential “option” for the woman? If a man refuses to pay for the first date or simply would like to split the bill  , is he suddenly banished to the friend zone or listed as an unsaved number? The idea is that if a man takes the time to pay for your meal, [especially if he took you to an expensive restaurant] then  sex is expected at the end of the night. Let’s all keep it real, if a man spends $200 on a date, he’s expecting to get some ass at the end of the evening; not a simple kiss on the cheek and a “good night” text. The question is…do women owe this to men?  Continue reading “If a Man Pays for a Date…You Owe Him Sex?”

Where is Frank Ocean’s Album, “Boys Don’t Cry”?

Frank Ocean has continued to break the hearts of many. We’ve journeyed down a roller coaster of uncertainty waiting for his long awaited album. Frank Ocean’s last album, Channel Orange, debuted back in 2012 and there has been a variety or rumors, tall tales and conspiracy theories as to when he will release his next project. If he will release his next project?

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5 Reasons Why Your Ex Changes After a Breakup

Ever breakup with someone and all of sudden they’re doing EVERYTHING they said they would never do. You may have been in a relationship with someone who said they  didn’t drink or party but, you catch them all over social media at the hottest clubs tweeting about how shit faced they are the next morning. Maybe you were with a girl who dressed super conservative and after a breakup, all her social media accounts resemble that of a budding Instagram model in the making; fit tea included. You might sit there and ponder why they couldn’t just be themselves during the entire relationship or why they didn’t feel comfortable enough to experience new things with you?  Here are 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Changes After a Breakup:

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This is Why Your Sex Life Sucks

There’s something about sex that gets almost everyone’s panties in a bunch and now I know why, because almost everyone is having horrible sex. Yes you read that correctly and if you’ve clicked on this post you’re probably one of those silent sufferers. Well suffer no more because we’re about to turn your sex life all the way around.

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Malia Obama Dancing at Lollapalooza Music Festival?

As Barack Obamas’s presidential term comes to an end, Malia Obama was spotted having a good time at the Lollapalooza Music Festival this past weekend. When I watched the footage of Malia, all I saw was a young eighteen year old girl unapologetically enjoying herself with friends, however, social media erupted after the footage surfaced. A lot of people came to the conclusion that if your father is the president, that “twerking” (wouldn’t call what she did twerking) is completely left field  and disrespectful. Shots were fired as people couldn’t understand why she couldn’t wait until her father was out of the White House…. she’s making black women look bad….etc.  Let Malia live is all I could say to myself. I mean seriously, what were you all doing at 18 years old?  [FOOTAGE]

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5 Ways Social Media Will Ruin Your Sex Life

So you just had some amazing sex with your partner. The kind that makes you want to go for a round 3 ….or a round 5. For some of you, the sex is so good that you feel the urge to post about it on social media. You feel the need to brag about how horny you are on social media when your partner is out of town or just simply at work.  I always wondered why people felt the need to put their sex life all over social media. Are people trying to make others jealous? Do they think that we are all at home twiddling our thumbs, and not having sex too?  I’m all for the freedom of sexual expression but, spilling all the details about your sex life on social media could cause some problems. Here are 5 Reasons Why Social Media Can Ruin Your Sex Life

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Are You a Loyal Woman or Just a Dumb Ass?

A lot of people loosely throw the word “loyalty” around as if  it’s a quality that everyone possesses. In regards to a relationship, loyalty towards your partner is definitely one of the major keys that can either make or break it.  Consistently showing your support and allegiance to your partner can help build a relationship with longevity and trust. Despite this, many women are often loyal to the wrong men. They either get caught up in their emotions and lead with their heart or end up leading with pleasureful desires if they become “dickmitized”.  Both are equally unsatisfying.  So the question is, at what point does being a loyal woman become a dumb ass decision?

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