If a Man Pays for a Date…You Owe Him Sex?

In today’s dating culture, it is widely debated whether or not a man is expected to pay for the first date. Men are feeling used, after feelings of getting nothing in return for paying for the first date. To get a woman’s attention, is a man really obligated to cough up money on the first initial date in order to be seen as a potential “option” for the woman? If a man refuses to pay for the first date or simply would like to split the bill  , is he suddenly banished to the friend zone or listed as an unsaved number? The idea is that if a man takes the time to pay for your meal, [especially if he took you to an expensive restaurant] then  sex is expected at the end of the night. Let’s all keep it real, if a man spends $200 on a date, he’s expecting to get some ass at the end of the evening; not a simple kiss on the cheek and a “good night” text. The question is…do women owe this to men?  Continue reading “If a Man Pays for a Date…You Owe Him Sex?”

Kanye West and Drake Collaborative Album Announcement

Though I’m still waiting on a J.Cole and Kendrick Lamar collaborative album; and for Frank Ocean’s album release as well…….word of a Kanye West and Drake collaborative album is also what I need in my life.
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Are You a Loyal Woman or Just a Dumb Ass?

A lot of people loosely throw the word “loyalty” around as if  it’s a quality that everyone possesses. In regards to a relationship, loyalty towards your partner is definitely one of the major keys that can either make or break it.  Consistently showing your support and allegiance to your partner can help build a relationship with longevity and trust. Despite this, many women are often loyal to the wrong men. They either get caught up in their emotions and lead with their heart or end up leading with pleasureful desires if they become “dickmitized”.  Both are equally unsatisfying.  So the question is, at what point does being a loyal woman become a dumb ass decision?

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7 Rules to Live by in a Rebound Relationship

I’m not at all against rebound relationships and I do believe that many people use them to get over the pain from their ex. Some people gain 100 lbs after an intense breakup, while some jump head first into a rebound situation in order to fulfill their sexual and emotional needs. When I look at Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston or think of when Kylie Jenner and PartyNextDoor had a brief hook up; I can’t even fix my face to have a side eye. So many people engage in rebound sex and relationships after they’ve had their heart broken; fame does not make them exempt. (Although, it’s still very uncertain as to whether Calvin Harris actually broke Taylor’s heart). The reality of it all, is that breakups can leave you feeling empty and alone. Sometimes people want that shoulder to cry on or just simply the intimacy that they no longer have with their ex. This is when people start to explore their options and turn to all those unsaved numbers in their phone looking for a “rebound”.     Here are 7 Keys to Take into a Rebound Relationship:

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Friendzoned? 6 Reasons Why it’s Your Fault

Your whole life, you’ve been labeled as the “cute nice guy”, but you finally meet a woman that peaks your interest. She’s beautiful, you both like the same movies and she was rooting for the same team in the NBA finals. In your mind, you two start “dating” and you see her potential, possibly even a future. You buy her drinks, gifts, expensive dinners, chauffeur her around town and are always there when she’s having a shitty day. Your mission to completely WOO her and sweep her off her feet is in full affect.  Months pass by where you have proudly shown your interest in her. You finally get the balls and decide to ask to take things to the next level; an exclusive relationship. She proceeds to reject you with the infamous line, ” You know we’re just friends, right”? At this very moment you’re dying inside, at the audacity she has to label you “just a friend”, when you have invested so much time and money on her ungrateful a**.  You have officially been sentenced to the friendzone  for life without possibility of parole. As you’re gasping for air trying to escape, you realize that she had tossed you into this category months ago. Here are 6 Reason Why it’s Your Fault You’re in the Friendzone: 

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Iggy Azalea and Nick Young Split- Good Women Get Cheated On

Rapper ,Iggy Azalea,  opened up about the reason for recently ending her relationship  with NBA  player Nick Young. This morning Iggy tweeted, ” I broke up with Nick because I found out he brought other women into our home while I was away and caught them on security footage”. This information is not at all surprising, however,  I did imagine that Nick would have a little bit more respect for his woman after being caught the first time. It’s not like Nick couldn’t afford to cheat in the comfort of a chic hotel room, right? He obviously assumed it was more”comfortable” to cheat in his home, which says a lot about their relationship all together.To make matters worse, Nick’s ex and mother of his child is four months pregnant and he has confessed to sleeping with her after a drunken night. Let us not forget that this past March, Nick was caught on camera during a “secret” man to man conversation with his team mate DeAngelo Russell where he revealed that he has cheated before on his then fiance, Iggy.

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Reacting to Porn Fetishes-Let’s Talk Sex

Here’s our reaction to some of the most notorious porn fetishes!

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Why Black Men Date White Women

Another controversial topic so please refrain from watching if you’re hyper-sensitive. We’re discussing the stigma behind why “black men” prefer to date “white women” over black women and other stigmas attached to interracial dating.

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Why Men Don’t Trust Women

Here’s 11 reasons why we think men generally don’t trust women in their relationships. Please don’t take offense to this its just our opinion but in case you are offended, its not our problem.
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Building a Business with your Friends

When going into business with a friend, it is important to consider the pros and cons. When Hazel and I first started The Dahlia Girls we had already been friends for over 10 years, however, the amount of time you’ve known your friend doesn’t necessarily always matter. The most important thing is that the friend you are considering doing business with shares your same vision, you trust them and that they are going to work as hard as you. We both have the same business goals and dreams, which makes our business partnership not very difficult. Despite this,  you should always consider the pros and cons of developing a business relationship with friends.

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