If a Man Pays for a Date…You Owe Him Sex?

In today’s dating culture, it is widely debated whether or not a man is expected to pay for the first date. Men are feeling used, after feelings of getting nothing in return for paying for the first date. To get a woman’s attention, is a man really obligated to cough up money on the first initial date in order to be seen as a potential “option” for the woman? If a man refuses to pay for the first date or simply would like to split the bill  , is he suddenly banished to the friend zone or listed as an unsaved number? The idea is that if a man takes the time to pay for your meal, [especially if he took you to an expensive restaurant] then  sex is expected at the end of the night. Let’s all keep it real, if a man spends $200 on a date, he’s expecting to get some ass at the end of the evening; not a simple kiss on the cheek and a “good night” text. The question is…do women owe this to men?  Continue reading “If a Man Pays for a Date…You Owe Him Sex?”

10 Signs She Might be Using You for Sex

There is this common misconception that men are the only ones expected or allowed to engage in a relationship solely for casual sex. I think the whole world forgets that women have sexual needs and  similar desires to express themselves intimately yet freely. There are so many blogs and videos out there to recognize red flags when a man is using a woman for sex but, no one really talks about when the roles are reversed. What happens when you meet an amazing woman with a radiant personality and perfect body to match? You arrange to go on a few dates, have sex and then you never hear from her again. After talking to a few men about this topic, a lot of them revealed that they have been through similar situations and were left confused, shocked and hurt at the fact that a woman could have sex and never talk to them again. Especially, considering the fact that they started to fall for their personality. Though most men say that they are more concerned with being used financially, being used for sex can be just as alarming if you aren’t paying attention to the signs. I believe that both men and women should tell each other from the start what they are looking for so that no one develops expectations or unrealistic feelings, however, we ALL know that things don’t usually play out this way.  Here are 10 Signs She Might be Using You for Sex: Continue reading “10 Signs She Might be Using You for Sex”

Did Kim Kardashian Just Expose Taylor Swift?- Being Fake Get’s You Nowhere

It looks like Kim Kardashian just exposed Taylor Swift on Snap Chat and I must say I would love to see how this plays out. Back in February when Kanye released his album ” The Life of Pablo” he directed some rauchy lyrics towards Taylor in his track “Famous”:  “I feel like me and Taylor might still have sex/ Why? I made that bitch famous,” Kanye raps in the song’s opening verse. He goes on, “For all the girls that got dick from Kanye West/ If you see ’em in the streets give ’em Kanye’s bests/ Why? They mad they ain’t famous/ God damn/ They mad they’re still nameless.”

Now this would be pretty insulting if Kanye didn’t already have Taylor’s approval to release the track, despite the  lyrics, Right? Around this time one of Taylor’s representatives released the following statement:  “Kanye did not call for approval, but to ask Taylor to release his single ‘Famous’ on her Twitter account. She declined and cautioned him about releasing a song with such a strong misogynistic message. Taylor was never made aware of the actual lyric, ‘I made that bitch famous”…..

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Too Damaged to Care About Relationships

By our early 20s, we typically have experienced a heart break in some shape or form.  You have experienced the beauty of free falling into love, and then have faced the reality that your relationship has failed or is no longer existent. This feeling is one that molds our idea of relationships and sometimes can destroy it.

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Living Life in Color: DC Edition “World’s Largest Paint Party”

If you don’t already know about Life in Color ,also known as Lictour, it is  considered the world’s LARGEST paint party. Hazel and I had never been to a paint party, so we were very unsure what to expect from the event. We did know, however, not to wear anything remotely important because it would probably get destroyed from all the paint. We are always ready to try something new and exciting and were ready to get our hand’s dirty and enjoy the event.

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Check out our video from Snap Chat to see how everything went for us ! Don’t forget to follow our weekly adventures on Snap Chat at dahlias.ent

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Let’s Talk Sex and Relationships: Sex On the First Date, Threesomes and Cheating

Thank you guys for all the questions that you continue to send us on Snap Chat! #ConfessyourSnaps to us through #SnapConfessionals where we get honest and give you our advice! Remember that questions will be answered anonymously weekly ! Follow us on Snap Chat at dahlias.ent