If a Man Pays for a Date…You Owe Him Sex?

In today’s dating culture, it is widely debated whether or not a man is expected to pay for the first date. Men are feeling used, after feelings of getting nothing in return for paying for the first date. To get a woman’s attention, is a man really obligated to cough up money on the first initial date in order to be seen as a potential “option” for the woman? If a man refuses to pay for the first date or simply would like to split the bill  , is he suddenly banished to the friend zone or listed as an unsaved number? The idea is that if a man takes the time to pay for your meal, [especially if he took you to an expensive restaurant] then  sex is expected at the end of the night. Let’s all keep it real, if a man spends $200 on a date, he’s expecting to get some ass at the end of the evening; not a simple kiss on the cheek and a “good night” text. The question is…do women owe this to men?  Continue reading “If a Man Pays for a Date…You Owe Him Sex?”

10 Signs She Might be Using You for Sex

There is this common misconception that men are the only ones expected or allowed to engage in a relationship solely for casual sex. I think the whole world forgets that women have sexual needs and  similar desires to express themselves intimately yet freely. There are so many blogs and videos out there to recognize red flags when a man is using a woman for sex but, no one really talks about when the roles are reversed. What happens when you meet an amazing woman with a radiant personality and perfect body to match? You arrange to go on a few dates, have sex and then you never hear from her again. After talking to a few men about this topic, a lot of them revealed that they have been through similar situations and were left confused, shocked and hurt at the fact that a woman could have sex and never talk to them again. Especially, considering the fact that they started to fall for their personality. Though most men say that they are more concerned with being used financially, being used for sex can be just as alarming if you aren’t paying attention to the signs. I believe that both men and women should tell each other from the start what they are looking for so that no one develops expectations or unrealistic feelings, however, we ALL know that things don’t usually play out this way.  Here are 10 Signs She Might be Using You for Sex: Continue reading “10 Signs She Might be Using You for Sex”

Did Kim Kardashian Just Expose Taylor Swift?- Being Fake Get’s You Nowhere

It looks like Kim Kardashian just exposed Taylor Swift on Snap Chat and I must say I would love to see how this plays out. Back in February when Kanye released his album ” The Life of Pablo” he directed some rauchy lyrics towards Taylor in his track “Famous”:  “I feel like me and Taylor might still have sex/ Why? I made that bitch famous,” Kanye raps in the song’s opening verse. He goes on, “For all the girls that got dick from Kanye West/ If you see ’em in the streets give ’em Kanye’s bests/ Why? They mad they ain’t famous/ God damn/ They mad they’re still nameless.”

Now this would be pretty insulting if Kanye didn’t already have Taylor’s approval to release the track, despite the  lyrics, Right? Around this time one of Taylor’s representatives released the following statement:  “Kanye did not call for approval, but to ask Taylor to release his single ‘Famous’ on her Twitter account. She declined and cautioned him about releasing a song with such a strong misogynistic message. Taylor was never made aware of the actual lyric, ‘I made that bitch famous”…..

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What Women Really Think of Men

Find out how women truly view men in our latest video where we review 9 different types of men, their relationship life expectancy, as well as their favorite line. We hope you all enjoy!!

Heres a list of the different types of men discussed in the video :

-The Cheater
-The Emasculated Man
-The Yes Man
-The Always Single Man
-The Asshole Man
-The Bum Man
-The Peter Pan Man
-The Momma’s Boy Man
-The Mature Man

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Guide to Surviving the In-Laws This Holiday Season

It’s that time of year again; where we carve the turkey, sit down at the dinner table and share what we’re all thankful for in the midst of family, smiles and holiday cheers. Of course if you’re anything like myself and the rest of the majority of America, then being in the midst of in laws might not be as appeasing when the only thing you’re thankful for is the fact that this day only comes around once a year. Still, those few hours can move you to drink a little more wine than normal, but don’t worry, we’ve got you covered; this is how you survive the in laws for the holiday season.

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Creed Movie Review: Not Just Another Boxing Movie (Spoiler)

As a fan of the original Rocky Balboa movie from 1976, I heavily anticipated the re-launch of the franchise with Creed.  I’m so glad that they decided to keep the legendary Sylvester Stalone as Rocky Balboa, instead of choosing an unfamiliar face. While watching the movie, I initially thought the plot would be centered around Rocky Balboa’s story, however, I was pleased that they decided to develop Adonis Creed’s  (Michael B. Jordan) character into a separate storyline.

If you have not seen the original Rocky film, you probably should crawl from under the rock you’ve been hiding under and get in touch with the classics. However, since I am so kind I will briefly explain some of the background details of the Creed movie. Apollo Creed was considered the best boxer ever; the undisputed boxing champion of the world. In the movie, he challenges Rocky Balboa (Sylvester Stalone), who was considered the underdog. To make a long story short, Apollo Creed gets a surprise in the ring and takes a few hard hits from Rocky. Rocky puts up a shocking fight and loses by a few seconds.

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My Accomplishments Ruined My Relationship

Have you ever been in a relationship and realized you’re a complete catch? You actually have something going for yourself; whether it be a degree, a great job, your own place, your own car- you’re just overall working hard on yourself. You are the epitome of a boss! Despite your accomplishments, have you ever felt that they get belittled or minimized within your relationship? Maybe it’s not intentional but, you notice day by day that your partner is insecure about your success. It may feel  impossible to understand, for the simple fact that you may be doing everything right. Can you fix your relationship if your partner can’t handle your accomplishments and ambitious attitude?

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