5 Reasons Why Your Ex Changes After a Breakup

Ever breakup with someone and all of sudden they’re doing EVERYTHING they said they would never do. You may have been in a relationship with someone who said they  didn’t drink or party but, you catch them all over social media at the hottest clubs tweeting about how shit faced they are the next morning. Maybe you were with a girl who dressed super conservative and after a breakup, all her social media accounts resemble that of a budding Instagram model in the making; fit tea included. You might sit there and ponder why they couldn’t just be themselves during the entire relationship or why they didn’t feel comfortable enough to experience new things with you?  Here are 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Changes After a Breakup:

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Expensive Products to Replace with Coconut Oil in Your Vanity

Thank the make-up gods for beauty stores such as Sephora and Ulta. If it wasn’t for them, so much of the world would look different. This is usually how I’m feeling until I take my products to the cashier and she serves me one of those pity smiles right before she tells me the total. Well no more heart wrenching “please let my card go through” thoughts because I’ve found the mother of financial solutions. Coconut oil. Here’s five products to replace in your vanity with coconut oil.

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Malia Obama Dancing at Lollapalooza Music Festival?

As Barack Obamas’s presidential term comes to an end, Malia Obama was spotted having a good time at the Lollapalooza Music Festival this past weekend. When I watched the footage of Malia, all I saw was a young eighteen year old girl unapologetically enjoying herself with friends, however, social media erupted after the footage surfaced. A lot of people came to the conclusion that if your father is the president, that “twerking” (wouldn’t call what she did twerking) is completely left field  and disrespectful. Shots were fired as people couldn’t understand why she couldn’t wait until her father was out of the White House…. she’s making black women look bad….etc.  Let Malia live is all I could say to myself. I mean seriously, what were you all doing at 18 years old?  [FOOTAGE]

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5 Ways Social Media Will Ruin Your Sex Life

So you just had some amazing sex with your partner. The kind that makes you want to go for a round 3 ….or a round 5. For some of you, the sex is so good that you feel the urge to post about it on social media. You feel the need to brag about how horny you are on social media when your partner is out of town or just simply at work.  I always wondered why people felt the need to put their sex life all over social media. Are people trying to make others jealous? Do they think that we are all at home twiddling our thumbs, and not having sex too?  I’m all for the freedom of sexual expression but, spilling all the details about your sex life on social media could cause some problems. Here are 5 Reasons Why Social Media Can Ruin Your Sex Life

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Are You a Loyal Woman or Just a Dumb Ass?

A lot of people loosely throw the word “loyalty” around as if  it’s a quality that everyone possesses. In regards to a relationship, loyalty towards your partner is definitely one of the major keys that can either make or break it.  Consistently showing your support and allegiance to your partner can help build a relationship with longevity and trust. Despite this, many women are often loyal to the wrong men. They either get caught up in their emotions and lead with their heart or end up leading with pleasureful desires if they become “dickmitized”.  Both are equally unsatisfying.  So the question is, at what point does being a loyal woman become a dumb ass decision?

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7 Rules to Live by in a Rebound Relationship

I’m not at all against rebound relationships and I do believe that many people use them to get over the pain from their ex. Some people gain 100 lbs after an intense breakup, while some jump head first into a rebound situation in order to fulfill their sexual and emotional needs. When I look at Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston or think of when Kylie Jenner and PartyNextDoor had a brief hook up; I can’t even fix my face to have a side eye. So many people engage in rebound sex and relationships after they’ve had their heart broken; fame does not make them exempt. (Although, it’s still very uncertain as to whether Calvin Harris actually broke Taylor’s heart). The reality of it all, is that breakups can leave you feeling empty and alone. Sometimes people want that shoulder to cry on or just simply the intimacy that they no longer have with their ex. This is when people start to explore their options and turn to all those unsaved numbers in their phone looking for a “rebound”.     Here are 7 Keys to Take into a Rebound Relationship:

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Friendzoned? 6 Reasons Why it’s Your Fault

Your whole life, you’ve been labeled as the “cute nice guy”, but you finally meet a woman that peaks your interest. She’s beautiful, you both like the same movies and she was rooting for the same team in the NBA finals. In your mind, you two start “dating” and you see her potential, possibly even a future. You buy her drinks, gifts, expensive dinners, chauffeur her around town and are always there when she’s having a shitty day. Your mission to completely WOO her and sweep her off her feet is in full affect.  Months pass by where you have proudly shown your interest in her. You finally get the balls and decide to ask to take things to the next level; an exclusive relationship. She proceeds to reject you with the infamous line, ” You know we’re just friends, right”? At this very moment you’re dying inside, at the audacity she has to label you “just a friend”, when you have invested so much time and money on her ungrateful a**.  You have officially been sentenced to the friendzone  for life without possibility of parole. As you’re gasping for air trying to escape, you realize that she had tossed you into this category months ago. Here are 6 Reason Why it’s Your Fault You’re in the Friendzone: 

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10 Signs She Might be Using You for Sex

There is this common misconception that men are the only ones expected or allowed to engage in a relationship solely for casual sex. I think the whole world forgets that women have sexual needs and  similar desires to express themselves intimately yet freely. There are so many blogs and videos out there to recognize red flags when a man is using a woman for sex but, no one really talks about when the roles are reversed. What happens when you meet an amazing woman with a radiant personality and perfect body to match? You arrange to go on a few dates, have sex and then you never hear from her again. After talking to a few men about this topic, a lot of them revealed that they have been through similar situations and were left confused, shocked and hurt at the fact that a woman could have sex and never talk to them again. Especially, considering the fact that they started to fall for their personality. Though most men say that they are more concerned with being used financially, being used for sex can be just as alarming if you aren’t paying attention to the signs. I believe that both men and women should tell each other from the start what they are looking for so that no one develops expectations or unrealistic feelings, however, we ALL know that things don’t usually play out this way.  Here are 10 Signs She Might be Using You for Sex: Continue reading “10 Signs She Might be Using You for Sex”

Did Kim Kardashian Just Expose Taylor Swift?- Being Fake Get’s You Nowhere

It looks like Kim Kardashian just exposed Taylor Swift on Snap Chat and I must say I would love to see how this plays out. Back in February when Kanye released his album ” The Life of Pablo” he directed some rauchy lyrics towards Taylor in his track “Famous”:  “I feel like me and Taylor might still have sex/ Why? I made that bitch famous,” Kanye raps in the song’s opening verse. He goes on, “For all the girls that got dick from Kanye West/ If you see ’em in the streets give ’em Kanye’s bests/ Why? They mad they ain’t famous/ God damn/ They mad they’re still nameless.”

Now this would be pretty insulting if Kanye didn’t already have Taylor’s approval to release the track, despite the  lyrics, Right? Around this time one of Taylor’s representatives released the following statement:  “Kanye did not call for approval, but to ask Taylor to release his single ‘Famous’ on her Twitter account. She declined and cautioned him about releasing a song with such a strong misogynistic message. Taylor was never made aware of the actual lyric, ‘I made that bitch famous”…..

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